Standard Christian Wedding Ceremony

This non-denomination Christian ceremony takes about  17-20  minutes, depending upon whether you have unity candles, Rose ceremony, hand fasting etc.

(You may make changes if you wish)

Welcome Family And Friends

We are gathered here today to celebrate one of life’s greatest moments, to give recognition to the worth and beauty of love, and to add our best wishes to the words which shall unite BRIDE and  Groom in marriage.

Should there be anyone who has cause why this couple should not be united in marriage, they must speak now or forever hold their peace.

Who is it that brings this woman to this man?

(The father, children, relative etc. may give the bride away.

He /they answer  “I do”, “I do on behalf of her family and friends” etc. ,

This person then steps back and the groom takes the bride’s hand.)

BRIDE and  Groom, life is given to each of us as individuals, and yet we must learn to live together. Love is given to us by our family or by our friends. We learn to love by being loved. Learning to love and living together is one of the greatest challenges of life – and is the shared goal of a married life.


(Vows used unless other vows are wished. You may change the vows as you wish or write your own vows.)

Groom, do you take BRIDE to be your Wife? Do you promise to love, honor, cherish and protect her, forsaking all others and holding only unto her?
(“I do”)

Bride, do you take Groom to be your Husband? Do you promise to love, honor, cherish and protect him, forsaking all others and holding only unto him? 
(“I do”)

Wedding Rings


Reading of your choice. (View our suggested readings.)


(PRAYER if desired. Pray is your choice. Some couples will ask a family member to say a prayer.)

(Here we would insert Unity Candles, Sand Ceremony, Hand Fasting, etc.


Presentation Of The Couple